When M & K were growing up and we were at a standoff, I would sometimes remember to be wise. In those times, I would say something like, “when we’re angry at one another or we’ve hurt feelings, it creates a distance between us – one that is not easily closed again. Forgiveness is a … More The distance between us
A few days ago, a friend posted a picture of our 1982 JCHS debate squad following a successful tournament weekend. In the photo, we are gathered around a few trophies. Our expressions range from glee to terror to indifference. I am the terrified one. At 15, I had no idea what I wanted to do or … More Being Important v. Doing Important Work
This has been a quiet three weeks since my last post. At least outwardly. Inside the canyons of my thoughts and heart have heaved great howls and fierce arguments; laughter and other sweetness has been too rare. I have not found a way to make sense of the cacophony or to make a neat and idiot-proof way … More The road ahead
